Ever since I started taking active participation in men's issues and related media coverage, one question has stalked my mind like anything, "Why men hate other men so much?" The reason I ask this question is because surprisingly enough I have found stiff resistance from men about men's rights rather than women. Women, have been generally found to be understanding of the problem and empathizing barring a few radical male haters whom I anyways do not consider as women. They are just some non-males born to hate males.

Although I have talked about men's inability to communicate and men being unable to connect to their experiential domain earlier, today I will be talking about why men hate other men so much?

The counter argument to this can be, even women have more jealousies amongst themselves and this comes from the natural physiological behavioral pattern that "Opposites Attract, Likes Distract". However, there is a difference between dislike and hatred. When in hatred, you basically use your power against the hated to unleash your hatred. Currently this is happening with men.

Since there are more men at the top, more male judges in Supreme Court, more male parliamentarians, more males in the police force and all top Corporate positions, it  creates a false notion of male dominated world. Had it really been a male dominated world then more men would have been only at top, and not at bottom. But, even at bottom there are more men, for example more men die in wars and as soldiers, more men do risky and laborious jobs, more men are prone to fatal diseases etc. So men are present at both the extremes. However, I will not go into those details for now.

Coming back to the topic at hand, since the men at top are under the false notion of a MALE DOMINATED WORLD, they oppress the men under them to make themselves ‘look' Gender Neutral and in this process even infringe into the basic rights of men. They develop an attitude wherein they start sensing danger to their assumed power position the moment a woman complains about another men and in a bid to nurture their insecurity and hold on to their assumed power position they end up hating the man because of whom allegedly their assumed power position is endangered by their own inherent insecurity. Ultimately the complaint may be false, but because of the natural tendency of men to hold on to structures leads them to hate other men and today because of that man is suffering.

Since childhood, men are castrated emotionally and discouraged from expressing themselves too much publicly. This leads to two psychological anomalies in them,

1. They become dumb and cannot experience either their own pain or another man's pain.
2. They develop a competitive attitude which adds on to the hatred factor for other men as they have to compete with them to get the best woman in life as a wife.

Lastly, men hate other men, because of their increased inherent inclination towards sex. This makes them look sympathetically at women and critically at men. Women know the art of getting things done for sex; men do things to get sex.

Ultimately this hatred of men for other men is leading to the systematic termination of the institution of marriage, creation of the foundation of a fatherless society and animal society. Choice once again remains with men as to whether they want to continue with their hatred towards men or take steps to reduce it and strengthen men's rights movement.

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Doubtful   |69.14.122.xxx |05-06-2009 04:11:48 When men bond with other men, they do it by showing how tough they are towards still other men -- for example, men who have been wrongfully accused of crimes. So it's a negative feedback loop. Men try to bond by showing off in front of each other and in front of women, and they do this by dissing other men. As a result the collective status of men in our society continues to sink. And there is no substantial resistence to feminist tyranny. Reply | Quote 0   0

Somnath  - It is true   |72.25.157.xxx |02-07-2009 01:00:37 Example of such a case:- A woman comes to me and tells me that her husband doesnot treat her well and doesnot want the child to see her father at all as she hates him. I have two choices to support her and win her sympathy and then get to have sex with her. Second to tell her that the father has as much rights for his kids as the mother and lose her effection and she moves to another guy who tells her what she wants to listen. So obviously I took the first path although I hated her all the while. Reply | Quote 0   0

Somnath  - Fatherless society   |72.25.157.xxx |02-07-2009 01:09:31 I will repeat the last line in the topic again. The fatherless society, India follows everything that US does. After moving to US from India I have more american friends than Indians and came to know that in this country all men and women hate each other, they stay together because of only their biological needs. Every family has a divorced member, most families have step brothers/sisters/parents and half brother/sisters. I didnot know what is a half brother until I came to US. If we are also heading towards this in India I would say its a pity. The marriages survived in India only because women in the families used to listen to males. Now if they have step father and step mother who would care? I am waiting to see the crime rates in India to rise exponentially from kids of single parents. It will be more in India than in US soon because India adds additional problems to it like casteism, class divide, bribery, corruption and language barriers. Reply | Quote 0   0

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