Articles a Day on "We Men" have always touched upon the side of men unexplored and unthought of hitherto. Some of the articles in that line are Castration of the Initiator: A Social Service, Identity Crisis for Men, Male Identity Redefined et al. Quintessentially, all the articles boil down to the fact that there has been gross unnoticed injustice going on with men. The world and the conservatives have cheated the men by allowing only women to shift their identity from a home-maker or what I call as domestic engineer to a career-woman or what I call as social engineers and that too it's the choice of the woman to do so.

However, men have been denied the luxury, they are still expected to be the ones who sacrifice more than women, they are still the ones expected to be taking more risks, they are still the ones expected to the Unpaid Bodyguard, the De-Facto Protector (often defamed as Predator) and the Omnipresent Provider, and because women are doing social engineering, additionally men are also expected to be the Domestic Engineer.

Ironically enough men do not realize the gravity of the situation primarily due to two reasons:-

1. They are simply not left with enough time to think about all this - given the enormous variety and quantity of expectations that they have to satiate.
2. They are emotionally castrated since the age of 6 and are left emotionally incapable to assess situations and deal accordingly. Put it straight - men are in no position to realize the abuse they are subjected to; they live in a world of denial as they are not close to their experiential domain.

And they continue to live in fantasies and never stop dream chasing. But now it's time they sense the conspiracy and declare freedom; freedom from their role of "The Knight in Shining Armor" wherein men are supposed to protect and provide for their family by marrying, having a family, buying a house etc.

Day by day, divorces are increasing as men are crumbling under the load and women are simply not ready to MAN the house and with divorces, is also increasing the verbal, physical, emotional, mental and financial abuse of men and all of this is happening because it is easy to trap a man as he follows a particular structure.

The day men shun off all responsibilities, stop protecting women, stop marrying and getting crumbled under responsibilities and stop buying houses to provide for, will mark the rising of men as FREE MEN. They can then travel, freak out, have fun, hang out with friends while women can take the responsibility.

Currently men are heavily dependent upon marriage and acceptance of burden of responsibility in order to survive in the society and this dependence sets the stage for their abuse. The day men become self-dependent i.e. independent of social burdens their lives will improve a lot rather than leading a dog's life they are currently leading.

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